FEARLESS FRIDAY
Oh my do I feel the pain of my guest blogger. We just purchased a put-together desk recently...but I stepped back and let FDW fight with it. Ah, the language! Enjoy this post from Susan Harris Howell. She is fearless for tackling such a project. And then check our her book which sounds like a fun read.
My new
desk came to me in 483 pieces—slats, panels, and hardware wrapped in plastic
bags for “easy delivery and assembly.” My daughter commented that the company
might have just sent me a tree and an ice pick for the work it would require.
I sat on the floor, surrounded by debris that looked nothing like the desk I had ordered. I wanted to lie down and cry. I would have too if I would’ve had enough floor space to lie down. This was an impossible task.
I wanted
to send it back, but I could no more repack that box than I
could unring a bell. So, I picked up the forty-eight-page instruction
booklet, turned to page one, and put the “twist-lock fasteners into outer ends
A and C.”
That first
step was the beginning of a three-day process which led to the beautiful desk I
now adore. It also taught me a few things about another “impossible” task I
would soon face – writing my first novel.
Here’s
what I learned.
Lesson
One: Just do today’s work.
As I
thumbed through the encyclopedic-sized instruction manual, I knew I’d have to
narrow my focus. So, I concentrated on step one without mentally moving on to
steps two or three. This helped me begin and kept me moving forward.
Likewise,
when writing a book, we often work best by tackling one manageable task at a
time without mentally wandering into steps two, three, or beyond. Narrowing our
focus can move us forward.
Lesson
Two: Be confident.
That first
day, colleagues dropped by to offer condolences. I assumed they would know more
than I and would have secrets to share on furniture assembly. Sadly, none of
them did; evidently, there were no secrets.
Similarly,
when we have a story to tell, we can’t assume someone else will tell it better.
They have their own stories to write, their own desks to assemble. My story is
my story; your story is yours. Be confident in the telling.
Lesson
Three: Use available resources.
On the
first day when my husband offered our power drill, I declined since the
instructions clearly said power tools weren’t necessary. On day two, I grabbed
that power drill and didn’t let go. Using the right tool made the task easier.
Likewise,
when writing, we can avail ourselves of quality resources. Books, conferences,
blogs and podcasts – a lot of information is out there. Find it and use
it.
Lesson
Four: Let others participate.
When one
of my students (now a friend) offered to help, I gratefully accepted. Not only
was Bethany’s help priceless, she and I bonded through our desk-a-thon
experience. For several days, we posted pictures and progress reports on social
media. Friends across several states watched with interest and celebrated the
finished product.
In the
same way, writing is richer when others walk alongside us. Whether they read
each draft, encourage our persistence, or subscribe to our newsletter, many
will participate if we invite them. Don’t go it alone.
The
take-away?
My desk
now serves as a daily reminder of what can be accomplished when we focus on
today’s work, remain confident, use available resources, and invite others to
join us.
I hope
these lessons encourage you in your next “impossible” endeavor.
Book Blurb:
When Samantha and her
students uncover a campus death, they must draw on everything from science to
seances, to learn what
happened before Samantha gets fired for “dabbling in the paranormal.”
Buy Links:
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Spirit-Vanderlaan-Samantha-Hayes-Book-ebook/dp/B0DHV65RM4?ref_=ast_author_dp
B&N: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-spirit-of-vanderlaan-susan-howell/1146282868?ean=9781509258888
Author
Bio:
Susan Harris Howell is a psychologist and retired university professor. The Spirit of Vanderlaan, draws on her career to capture the warmth between a teacher and the students who inhabit her office. Susan is also the author of Buried Talents. She and her husband have two grown children, a daughter-in-law, one adorable grandson, and an incorrigible beagle named Doc.
My Social Media Links:
Website: https://susanharrishowell.com
Instagram: www.instagram.com/susan_h_howell/
Email
List & Monthly Blog: https://susanharrishowell.substack.com
Facebook: www.facebook.com/susanhowellwriter

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