FEARLESS FRIDAY
You're in for a treat today. My guest, Vijaya Schartz, has a great tale of conquering fear.
Thank
you Brenda, for having me on your Fearless Friday blog today.
Before
I start, I would like to mention my two historical fantasy romance bargain
books in kindle today:
Curse
of the Lost Isle, special edition box set (3 novels in one download) for 99cts:
http://amzn.com/B0091HX7EE
and
Chatelaine of Forez, Book 5 in the same series, discounted for the first time
99cts: http://amzn.com/B00I3T9VYG
When
we say fearless, we are not talking about the absence of fear. Everyone has
fears, it’s ingrained in our DNA. Fear protects us from doing dangerous things.
Those who have no fear at all usually die young. When fear threatens to
overcome you, however, the trick consists in finding peace and clarity of mind,
despite overwhelming or dangerous circumstances. Like our heroes and heroines,
when the time comes, we need to overcome fear, in order to do what needs to be
done.
In
the movie AFTER EARTH, the wounded hero teaches his young son, their only hope of
survival after a crash on a hostile planet, to ignore fear, because fear is not
real. The boy says, "How can I pretend there is no danger?" And the
hero answers: "Oh, danger is very real, but fear is a choice."
I
remember being about twelve, doing handstands in our small apartment, late at
night. On the way down, my bare foot hit a heavy ceramic bowl, which broke, and
a large shard gouged a hole in the top of my foot. Blood everywhere... for the
first time in my life I saw my mother paralyzed by fear, babbling, unable to
function. She could hardly breathe, she was so upset she couldn’t think at all.
We had no phone, there was no 911 then. We had no car, it was a small town in
France, no hospital, and that late at night, everything was closed.
So,
I remembered my martial arts teacher saying “Stay calm. Think. What needs to be
done? Do it.” So I did. I told my mother to get out of the room. I took a few
deep breaths, then calmly asked my sister to get the first aid kit. I washed the
wound in the sink, then cleansed it with alcohol despite the sting, and packed
the hole, then bandaged the foot tightly to stop the flow of blood. Then I
cleaned up the blood from the floor, the walls, the sink. Early the next
morning, I limped to the doctor’s home office with my sister, and the doctor
stitched me up. I wore a big scar on my left foot for decades.
Of
course, some of us are thrill seekers. Conquering fear has since become a hobby
of mine: jumping free fall out of perfectly good planes, braving the river
wild, fighting opponents three times my size just to see if I can do it. I have
to mention I stand barely 5 feet and a hundred and five pounds (on a good day)
and was always picked by my various martial arts teachers for the time honored
David and Goliath demonstration.
Skill,
speed, balance, training, coordination, foreknowledge of the enemy, endurance,
will power, clarity of mind, these are the elements of victory over fear. These
are what drives a champion to the Olympic gold, what makes a fictional
character worthy, what makes a soldier lethal. Although, in a soldier’s case,
there is something to be said for a good exoskeleton... especially on alien planets
where gravity can play tricks on you.
MY
TECHNIQUE TO BECOME FEARLESS IN EMERGENCY SITUATIONS:
1
- Take a big breath, release it slowly, it calms your mind, slows your heartbeat.
2
- Stop and focus. What needs to be done?
3
- What’s the most effective way to do it?
4
- Got it? Now, just do it.
You
may be tempted to think of the worst that can happen. Forget the consequences.
Get over it. Do what needs to be done. It will save your life, or someone
else's life, and whether or not you become a hero, you’ll have the satisfaction
of having done the right thing in difficult circumstances. The more you do it,
the easier it gets. It’s that simple. I said simple, I never said it would be
easy. Good luck.
About the author:
Born
in France, award-winning author Vijaya Schartz never conformed to anything and
could never refuse a challenge. She likes action and exotic settings, in life
and on the page. She traveled the world and claims to also travel through time,
as she writes without boundaries about the future and the far away past. Her
love of cats transpires in most of her books. Her stories collected many five
star reviews and literary awards. She makes you believe you actually lived
these extraordinary adventures among her characters. Reviewers compared her stories
to Indiana Jones with sizzling romance, and she takes that as a compliment
anytime. Find out more about Vijaya and her books at: http://www.vijayaschartz.com
Now
you know Vijaya writes kick-butt, fearless heroines (and heroes), and you can
find them in all her romantic novels, whether in a futuristic, contemporary, or
historical fantasy setting.
About the CURSE OF
THE LOST ISLE historical Fantasy series:
From history shrouded in myths, emerges a family of immortal Celtic Ladies, who roam the medieval world in search of salvation from a curse. For centuries, imbued with hereditary gifts, they hide their deadly secret, stirring passions in their wake as they fight the Viking hordes, send the first knights to the Holy Land, give birth to kings and emperors... but if the Church ever suspects what they really are, they will be hunted, tortured, and burned at the stake. 5 stars on Amazon "Edgy Medieval!"
From history shrouded in myths, emerges a family of immortal Celtic Ladies, who roam the medieval world in search of salvation from a curse. For centuries, imbued with hereditary gifts, they hide their deadly secret, stirring passions in their wake as they fight the Viking hordes, send the first knights to the Holy Land, give birth to kings and emperors... but if the Church ever suspects what they really are, they will be hunted, tortured, and burned at the stake. 5 stars on Amazon "Edgy Medieval!"
Vijaya Schartz
Blasters, Swords, Romance with a Kick