FEARLESS FRIDAY
Since I'm a Bathophobic (fear of being underground or underwater), I'm enjoying today's Fearless Friday. I haven't conquered mine yet, but you'll be delighted to read about Addison Brae and some other phobias.
Do
you ever get dizzy, breathless, or nauseous at the thought of flying, sharks,
tornados, hurricanes, earthquakes, or even learning something new? The National
Institute of Mental Health reports an estimated 9.1 percent of U.S. adults had
a specific phobia over the year of the study, and the prevalence was 12.2
percent for females.
Here
are some achievements I certainly didn’t tackle fearlessly, but rather faced my
fears head-on. These adventures may not be phobias, but at times my heart raced.
I felt like I would throw up any second. The good far outweighed the bad, and
in hindsight, I don’t regret any of these journeys.
· * Attended
high school in another country—inspired my first manuscript
· *Got
my scuba certification
· *Learned
to figure skate as an adult and competed—inspired my second manuscript
· *Rode
in a hot air balloon
· *Quit my corporate job to start my own consulting business—August was 18 years
· *Learned
to shoot a pistol
· *Bought
a sports car
· *Published
a novel
The achievement
that sticks with me most was leaving my second husband. It was an emotionally
abusive relationship about to explode to violence. Before I left I was afraid
for my life at times. The fear of stepping out into the single world again brought
an entirely opposite fear. These experiences inspired Becker Circle, my third
manuscript and first to publish.
Seventy-four
percent of people in America know someone who’s a domestic abuse victim, which
is why a portion of my proceeds go to Hope’s Door New Beginnings Center,
to help raise awareness and stop the horrible trend. The good news is we always
have a way out. Fresh starts are scary. They almost always come with doubts
like Gillian, the main character in Becker Circle, experienced, but those
doubts are rarely worse than what already happened. Fresh starts come with
experimentation. We screw up. The sting reminds us we’re not numb.
Facing fear of leaving and a new beginning led to another adventure, vacationing in Puerto Rico--alone. A few years later, it led to something else that causes shortness of breath and racing heartbeats--falling in love.
Facing fear of leaving and a new beginning led to another adventure, vacationing in Puerto Rico--alone. A few years later, it led to something else that causes shortness of breath and racing heartbeats--falling in love.
Today’s Fearless Friday. You don’t have to be
fearless, but I challenge you to stare down a fear today.
You
can find Becker Circle on Amazon. Connect with Addison Brae on website, Tirgearr
Publishing, Twitter, Facebook
or YouTube.
About
Becker Circle
New
degree. New job. It’s Gillian’s fresh start across the country. So much to
experience. A giant past to forget. Gillian’s sense of humor and best friend help
her maintain her self-respect when most every jerk in the neighborhood hits on
her. Who know a fresh start could threaten her dignity—and even her life. Watch
the trailer.